The Constitution allows Congress to make all their own rules. As such, every new House of Representatives passes a resolution to update their rules and operating procedures. The House of Representatives for the 117th Congress did this by passing House Resolution 8 on January 4th, 2021.
After this, claims started to spread online that gendered terms were now banned in the House of Representatives.
House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy claimed on Fox News and on Twitter that the Democratic-controlled House "won't let you say 'gendered' words like 'father' and 'mother.'" A graphic with a list of terms banned in the House is spreading on Twitter like wildfire.
So we're Verifying:
Did the House of Representatives ban "gendered terms" in legislation or on the House floor?
No. Sections of H. Res. 8 altered a number of terms in the House Code of Official Conduct. It did not ban the use of any words.
House Resolution 8 made hundreds of small changes to the existing House Rules. One change in particular caught a lot of attention: 10(e) Gender-Inclusive Language.
Most online claims circulate around a change to a clause in the House of Representatives Code of Official Conduct; it's cited in the graphic being shared.
The House changed a few words in an ethics rule that prevents any "Member, Delegate, Resident Commissioner, or officer of the House" from keeping a relative in a paid position on their staff.
The 117th Congress altered the definition of "relative" to be gender-neutral and succinct. That change, in full:
(3) In clause 8(c)(3) of rule XXIII, strike “father, mother, son, daughter, brother, sister, uncle, aunt, first cousin, nephew, niece, husband, wife, father-in-law, mother-in-law, son-in-law, daughter-in-law, brother-in-law, sister-in-law, stepfather, stepmother, stepson, stepdaughter, stepbrother, stepsister, half brother, half sister, grandson, or granddaughter” and insert “parent, child, sibling, parent’s sibling, first cousin, sibling’s child, spouse, parent-in-law, child-in-law, sibling-in-law, stepparent, stepchild, stepsibling, half-sibling, or grandchild”.
So while the language change is real, the House rules do not ban any words from being used by members on the House floor or in legislation.
While researching this story, the Verify team discovered that it's not unprecedented for the House to make their rules-language more inclusive. In 2009, the 111th Congress altered the House rules to make them inclusive of women in sections that only used "his" or "he" to describe a member.